It’s the most wonderful time of the year again. The time when you get to pick a gift for your sexy friend, and then of course grab something new for yourself as well. These gifts will make sure your love life will be as lit as that Christmas tree, and as hot as that menorah! The holidays are a time when romance is in the air. Sexy holiday gifts practically guarantee that whatever you give your partner or yourself, benefits you directly if you know what I mean (wink wink). Everyone wants to feel desired, so when your partner unwraps a gift that tells them, “I want you”, it’s game on! And if it’s your bestie? You’re giving them something they want but maybe wouldn’t splurge on for themselves.

You know your giftee best, so use your intuition! There are tons of spicy options available to you, so to help narrow it down, here are some of the most popular items in every category to get your creative juices flowing.

There’s a fine line between sexy Christmas gifts that are actually sexy and ones that are gross, creepy, and maybe even just plain inappropriate. You know your giftee best, so use your intuition! There are tons of spicy options available to you, so to help narrow it down, here are some of the most popular items in every category to get your creative juices flowing.


Books are great for not only the reader in your life who likes to research before diving in, but also great for a lower-stakes gift than a dildo or a butt plug. This can be where you start your exploration and get ideas for your next pleasure tool purchase, or just fill out your bookshelf because reading is sexy as hell.

  • Bliss Club: Sex Tips for Creative Lovers. Perfect for lovers just learning each other’s preferences to those looking for new ways to explore this book will show you new ways to touch every erogenous zone. Including ones you might not have even considered exploring before. Perfect even for those looking for new ways to explore their own bodies.
  • The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage. Beautiful pictures and easy-to-follow detailed instructions are abundant in this book that is necessary for anyone remotely interested in rope bondage. Plus Midori is exactly who you should want to read about rope bondage from, trust me!
  • The New Topping Book. Curious about BDSM and want to learn about some skills, safety, and communication tips? This book covers it. Honorable mention, of course, is The New Bottoming Book of course because every good top needs a good bottom! Explore your kinky side and see if you want to explore some more of your desires.
  • Female Ejaculation & the G-Spot, 2nd Edition. Squirting is a popular topic that fascinates many people. It’s a unique pleasure that is the fantasy fodder of porn and beyond. So if you’re interested in researching more about ejaculation this book is a great read on the topic.


Add a variety of shapes, sizes, and textures to your playtime. Double penetration, a feeling of fullness, gender expression, sex work, pleasure, kink, or solo play, there are many reasons why someone would want a dildo. Explore these popular options.

  • Addiction Confetti Suction Cup 7.5in. This fun confetti design is sure to bring a smile to your face. With its versatile suction cup design and soft squishy silicone, we see why this toy is so popular. It’s just a fun design! And the pronounced head is good for G/P spot stimulation.
  • Crystal Heart of Glass Dildo. Another magical design with an adorable pink heart handle on the top of the glass textured wand. Temperature play is a breeze with this toy that can easily be cooled or warmed. Discreet and safe for any orifice.
  • Blush Neo Elite Glow-in-the-Dark Omnia 7 Inch Silicone Dildo. Ready to light up the night with this smooth squishy dil that’s ideal for any hole. This dual density toy includes a strong suction cup makes this a versatile toy, that is a great choice for anyone on your list or for your own collection.
  • Blush Temptasia Twist Set of Three. While this graduated set is perfect for backdoor explorers, these shapes are perfect for anyone who needs some help easing into penetration. The smallest size starts about the size of a pinky, so a great place to start in soft squishy body-safe silicone.


Wands, bullets, and things that go buzz. These are some of the most popular items in the shop. Give the gift of good vibrations and let the good times roll!

  • Rechargeable Magic Wand Vibrator. This toy has been called a universal pleasure device for a reason. You’ll find more people who love this vibe than people who don’t like it, and if for some reason the recipient of this gift doesn’t want a high-powered vibrator, they get an amazing body massager. Still a win in my book!
  • Fantasy Ultimate Pleasure Dual Oral Sex Simulator & G-Spot Vibrator. Speaking of toys that do it all. This toy creates suction, has a flicking tongue, and is also a g-spot vibrator. So if you’re looking for a tool for your pleasure arsenal that can accomplish many different tasks this might be the ultimate pick to add to your collection.
  • Magic Wand Plus 4 Speed Massager. An upgrade to the Original corded version, with a body-safe silicone head and four different intensity settings, the Plus takes it to the next level and gives your partner a classic gift with less of the bells and whistles of the Rechargeable version.
  • VeDO Yumi Compact Silicone Finger Vibrator. This little vibe packs some power in its petite frame. Perfect for couples just starting to incorporate toys since it makes your hand vibrate, so your hand is now the sex toy! Use it on nipples, the clit, a penis, options are endless!


Your backdoor is full of feel-good nerve ending no matter your genital anatomy, so exploring it can lead to a ton of pleasure. So giving the gift of tools to explore can unlock unlimited orgasmic potential, just make sure to grab plenty of lube!

  • Mood Naughty 1 Anal Trainer Set. OR, get this popular classic set in black or pink. The classic teardrop shape comes in small, medium, and large. Ideal to work on sizing up and warming up for larger toys.
  • Icicles No. 48 Glass Butt Plug. This beautiful plug features a flower detail on the end of the plug. Glass so you can enjoy temperature play, and an easy-to-insert taper shape make a winning combo.
  • Southern Butter Backdoor Healing Balm. This balm is ideal for before or after anal play. This anal aftercare salve helps to soften tissues and soothe any tears. The unique herbal infusion offers calming, moisturizing relief.


Finding the right lubricant for your body and the type of play you like to have can change your life. So take the time to find the right formulation for you, no matter how much natural lubrication you have, and see how enriched your sex life becomes. It’s the number one sex tip I can give, use more lubricant!

  • Uberlube Silicone Lubricant. Moisturizing is the important feature here since this is one of the few silicone lubes with added Vitamin E, so this is a moisturizing Silicone formula.
  • Intamo Smooth Operator Water Based Lube is an honorable mention since it was tied with Uberlube and uses hyaluronic acid which offers luscious hydration to the skin and has antibacterial and healing properties.


Strokers are sleeves and pads for stroking and grinding that folks of any genital configuration can use. Soft, squishy, and textured you pick the texture and the look of the toy and it’s pretty much a personal preference! There are many less expensive options to explore to try them out and figure out what you like.

  • Tenga Spinner Spiral Masturbation Cup. The internal coil makes the Tenga Spinner twist as you stroke, delivering unbelievable sensations with each thrust. Each color is a different texture so you pick your adventure.
  • Sexy Pills Magic Silver & Black Stroker. Soft and squishy but firmer than some other options so sturdier than some of the other disposable options. A good option to test out different textures.


Ready to get kinky with your partner? Grab the tools to restrain, tease, clamp, and spank them to your heart’s content with consent of course. So whether you are ready to tie them up, or tease them we have all the tools you’ll need to make their bottom light up like Rudolph’s nose.

  • Sportsheets Under The Bed Restraint System. The easiest way to restrain your partner without a headboard or any serious sex furniture set up. Super simple to hide these when not in use, while still being incredibly sturdy!
  • Kink Tweak Nipple Sucker Set. Want to make your partner’s nipples even more sensitive? This is a simple easy way how to do that. The longer you leave these on, the more sensitive they’ll grow.
  • Kink Spike 3 Wheel Metal Pinwheel. Send tingles up and down your partner’s spine. Spike produces a variety of tantalizing sensations and effects depending on the pressure applied.

So now that you have your creative juices flowing, you just have to think back to conversations you have had with your partner about things you’ve wanted to try. Then you can get them a gift to make their sexiest fantasy come true. It’s not about the amount of money you spend, but the thought you put into your gift! And if you can’t decide you can always get a gift card and then spend date night shopping together!

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