Do you want to give the gift of pleasure but worry about breaking the bank? The days of having to compromise on safety or quality to get an affordable sex toy are over. Great body-friendly sex toys, sexual wellness items, books, and accessories don’t have to be expensive. This collection of giftable sex toys includes our top picks under $30, favorite sex toys under $50, good gifts to bring to a white elephant party, and a selection of sex toy kits that offer big savings! And as always, all of our products are curated with function and safety in mind. Check out this guide to affordable gifts with a sexy twist!
Great body-friendly sex toys, sexual wellness items, books, and accessories don’t have to be expensive.
$30 and Under
Check out our favorite gifts under $30 across our most popular categories. Need more inspiration? Visit our Under $30 collection for more ideas.
Favorite Sexy Game Under $30:
Sexy couples’ games can open up tons of new possibilities and help spice up your sex life and even increase intimacy. Box of Dares is a couples’ focused game that includes 100 different prompts to use with a partner. This game is as much a gift for yourself as it is for the other person. It even comes in a foil-wrapped box that makes it look extra giftable!
With a lovely rose gold finish, it looks luxe without having a hefty price tag.
Favorite Vibrator Under $30:
The Blush Lush Cora Rose Gold Mini Wand comes out on top when it comes to small vibrators that pack a punch. This tiny but mighty mini wand offers 10 modes of deep rumbly vibration and is small and easy to take with you anywhere you go. With a lovely rose gold finish, it looks luxe without having a hefty price tag.
Favorite Dildo Under $30:
Glass toys always look luxurious and can provide firm pressure, a slick feel, and a little more heft than other materials. Our top pick for a giftable dildo under $30 is the Icicles No. 5 Blue Swirl Glass Dildo. Shaped with a slight curve and defined tip as well as a flared base, this dildo is excellent for g-spot or p-spot play. It looks as great on display as it feels in use!
Favorite Cock Ring Under $30:
A vibrating cock ring is a gift for both the wearer and the receiver. These toys make excellent couples’ sex toys but can also be used for solo play. The Blush Noje C1 Rechargeable Vibrating Ring is an excellent pick for a gift under $30 because it offers power and versatility in a sleek package. The ring is made of silicone and comes with a removable rechargeable ABS plastic bullet which offers 10 modes of vibration.
Favorite Butt Toy Under $30:
Light up the night with the Cheeky Charms Luminous Light Up Butt Plug. This lightweight aluminum butt plug has a light on the base that lights up in 3 patterns. It has a classic teardrop shape which makes it easy to insert, and the smooth aluminum surface is very easy to clean. A very pretty and unique gift!
Favorite Apparel Gifts Under $30:
Shopping for apparel can be tricky unless you know someone’s exact size. We’ve pulled together a couple of suggestions for sexy wearables under $30 that are stretchy and intended to accommodate a range of sizes and body types. The Glow Blacklight Reflective No Promises Footless Teddy Neon Pink Body Stocking is really stretchy and is available in two sizes (one straight size and one plus/Queen size). Best of all, it glows in the blacklight for added fun! The Cage Black Singlet is an excellent choice that looks like a singlet with a sexy twist. This piece also comes in 2 sizes that each accommodate a range of sizing. These stretchy shorts are connected to suspenders on the front and have a sexy cage-style design on the back!
Besides being sturdy and comfortable, these truly holographic cuffs are a feast for the eyes!
Favorite BDSM Tool Under $30:
Shopping for your favorite kinkster? Check out this toybox staple, the Holographic Wrist Cuffs, and Connector Chain set. These sturdy cuffs are made of white and holographic vegan leather with sturdy gold-colored hardware. The connector chain is a great accessory for attaching the cuffs to each other or to your favorite hardware. Besides being sturdy and comfortable, these truly holographic cuffs are a feast for the eyes!
Honorable Mention – Slightly over $30:
We thought we’d mention one of our favorite gift sets that is just over the $30 budget ($31, to be exact) because we love it that much! The Seagrape Sexy Travel Set includes a variety of items that are great for pampering yourself or a partner. With a massage candle, massage oil, a bath soak, and edible body dust (complete with a feather for dusting), this little set makes for a fun sensory date or a night of deep self-care!
$50 and Under
Our top picks for gifts that cost $50 and under include some of our most popular sex toys! Check out our favorites below and browse more products under $50 on our site.
Favorite Game Under $50:
Sensual massage is the name of the game with Weekend in Bed. This game includes everything you need to level up your massage game and incorporate new techniques and sensory activities. From massage stones to tantric sex cards, this game turns date night into a weekend in bed, all for under $50.
Favorite Air Pressure Toy Under $50:
Air pressure stimulation creates a unique sensation that many people compare to receiving oral sex, and it’s become extremely popular. It’s no wonder there are so many different types of air pressure stimulators and that many of them come with hefty price tags. Luckily, the Romp Shine Rechargeable Air Pressure Stimulator boasts some amazing features (10 intensity levels, magnetic charging, a silicone head, and body-safe materials), so you can stick to your $50 budget while giving the gift of air pressure!
Favorite Dildo Under $50:
A current top-seller, the Strap-On-Me G/P Spot Dildo Plug feels like a luxury dildo but doesn’t cost as much as one. This liquid silicone (read: extra plush) dildo has a very pronounced curve at the tip, so it’s ideal for reaching the prostate or g-spot. With a flared suction cup base, so you can use it safely in the front or back door, use it in a harness, or enjoy it hands-free.
This compact sleeve is great for solo play but can also be incorporated into hand jobs and blow jobs...
Favorite Stroker Under $50:
Want to share the gift of self-pleasure with someone special? The Fleshlight Quickshot Vantage is an open-ended stroker or masturbation sleeve that is compact and comes in its own storage case. This compact sleeve is great for solo play but can also be incorporated into hand jobs and blow jobs to add a little something to your partner play as well!
Favorite Butt Toy Under $50:
Shine bright with the Crystal Delights Sparkle Glow In The Dark Glass Butt Plug. This beautiful borosilicate glass butt plug filled with crystals and with a sparkling gem base can be charged up in the light so it can glow in the dark. This plug makes an excellent gift for anyone who likes both bling and butt stuff!
Favorite Apparel Gifts Under $50:
Is your giftee hoping for some apparel that can double for fetish or fashion? Check out our recommendations for apparel that fits a range of sizes under $50. The Shots Neoprene Bulldog Style Chest Harness embodies a classic BDSM look while being comfortable to wear and easy to clean. Check out the Dreamgirl Stretch Mesh Teddy with Faux Leather Studded Trim for a sexy fetish-inspired look and functional wrist restraints!
Favorite BDSM Tool Under $50:
If you don’t already have one tucked under your mattress, check out the Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System. If you’re shopping for someone who loves bondage, this set opens up a world of possibilities. Adjustable, vegan, sturdy, and comfortable, it has everything you need for bedroom bondage. You can even use the cuffs on their own or interchange them with whatever cuffs you have at home!
White Elephant Gifts
Are you going to a white elephant gift exchange party with a tight budget? Bring something that your friends will remember for years to come and even get some good use out of. These are some fun gifts that are not sex toys, but remember that many of them are NSFW!
The Erotic Tarot Deck by Sofie Berkin is a gorgeous, colorful deck of tarot cards that takes a sexy approach to traditional tarot iconography. A perfect gift to bring to a party among friends, especially ones with witchy tendencies.
Give a gift that will give back at your next party. The Hash It Out Smoker Discussion Party Game is a fun game to play with friends, especially ones who like to smoke! Get to know each other a little better with this fun game.
Another fun white elephant gift is the Reusable Rainbow Disco Party Cup. This is a great gift for someone who likes showing off their Pride and staying hydrated on the go!
Tips to enhance their solo play and take control of their own pleasure.
Encourage your friends to explore more self-pleasure by putting Bang! Masturbation for People of All Genders & Abilities in the white elephant gift rotation. This 128-page book teaches readers with all different types of anatomy some tips to enhance their solo play and take control of their own pleasure.
Kits: Buy More and Save
If you have some wiggle room with your budget but still want to get the best bang for your buck, check out our sex toy kits. All of these sets are designed to create a full experience, so you can take your date night or solo exploration further. They all also offer savings over buying the items individually.
The Romp Pleasure Kit is an excellent set for starting a well-rounded sex toy collection. It includes the Romp Flip wand massager, the Romp Juke vibrating ring, and the Romp Flip Pleasure Air stimulator. It also includes a carry bag to complete the gift set.
If your giftee is interested in trying out bondage, the Ouch! Beginners Bondage Kit would make a great gift. The complete kit includes wrist and ankle cuffs, a blindfold, a flogger, a feather tickler, and a ball gag, so you have a lot of fun things to explore once the bottom is tied up!
This kit has everything you need for all-over stimulation!
Take your play into the stars with the Out of This World Kit. This customer-favorite includes a vibrating Milky Way suction cup silicone dildo, a Moon Sucker Vibe, glittery star pasties, and Wicked Simply Aqua lube. Besides being a cute space-themed collection, this kit has everything you need for all-over stimulation!
Are you shopping for the butt-curious person in your life? Check out the Sportsheets Perfect Practice 3-piece anal training butt plug kit. This kit includes 3 progressively sized silicone anal plugs with anchor bases that make them safe and comfortable for long-term wear. Perfect for getting started with anal play and for anal training.
No matter what your budget is, Spectrum Boutique has safe, fun, and functional toys for you to gift to yourself or someone else. For more savings, check out our sale section or join the Spectrum Lovers List, our loyalty program that rewards you for every purchase you make and gives you access to lots of free gifts, special edition products, additional promotions, and much more!