Whether you’re buying sex toys or lingerie for yourself or as a gift, it can be intimidating. Particularly if it’s not something you do often (or ever!). But when you find the right piece, it can be satisfying and affirming. Luckily, we no longer have to sacrifice comfort for style when it comes to plus-size lingerie. The world of plus-size lingerie can still be a minefield of ill-fitting cup shapes, bottoms, and tops being different sizes and designs that have just been made bigger but not adapted to the plus-size body. Basically, it can be a disappointing experience before you find something that feels good.
As a lingerie lover and someone with epic, head-turning tits and simply bodacious curves, it’s hard to find lingerie that fits my body in a way that feels comfortable and flattering to me. Most of the time, lingerie won’t have a full description, let alone a review. And how would the lingerie look on people at home who didn’t have a team of professionals posing them and adjusting everything to look just right?
It’s hard to find lingerie that fits my body in a way that feels comfortable and flattering to me.
Some of the things I’d want to know about lingerie include: how supportive is it? How will it look on camera? Can I incorporate it into daily clothes? How much stretch does the piece have? Is the size chart true to size? Is it adjustable? How durable is the fabric? Will it fall apart after a few wears, or will my nails immediately go through it? Is it comfortable enough to wear under clothes all day long? Is this a piece to wear and have someone quickly take off? Is the material soft to wear or is it scratchy and only looks good? Is it FUPA-friendly? Will the waistband stay up, or will it roll down on my belly? And most importantly, is it flattering to my boobs, and what’s the cup size like?

Boomba Lifts, Tape and Nipple Covers
If you’re looking for support under your everyday clothes or sexy club clothes, Boomba lifts and accessories are the missing pieces of the puzzle. The boosts come in varying levels of padding, so they can add up to 2 cup sizes or just some support without having to wear a bra. All the boosts are double-sided sticky, so they stay in place no matter how much you sweat. You could even swim with them on! My favorite was the body tape to help contour my body without shapewear. Boomba is ideal for anyone looking to add that extra oomph.

Dreamgirl Stretch Lace Teddy & Sheer Mesh Maxi Skirt
The Dreamgirl Stretch Lace Teddy & Sheer Mesh Maxi Skirt is a two-piece set with a stretch lace teddy and an open G-string back. This teddy has adjustable criss-cross straps so you can comfortably adjust it to your body. It also includes a Sheer mesh maxi skirt with an adjustable Tie-front closure on the skirt for easy in and out! While this set has a lot of stretch and adjustability, there is no support.
It’s perfect for a princess roleplay or for someone who doesn’t want lingerie with a lot of structure or tightness.
If you’re looking for a dreamy piece that is flowy and easy for someone to slip their hand into, then this would be a great option. It’s perfect for a princess roleplay or for someone who doesn’t want lingerie with a lot of structure or tightness. It’s flowy and loose, and I would even describe it as dreamy. If you want something just to frame your curves, this would be the ideal lace teddy to do that.

Noir Handmade Powerwetlook Top With Lacing
The Noir Handmade Powerwetlook Top With Lacing is a flattering deep V power-Wetlook top with deep décolletage lacing—adjustable straps on the back for an adjustable fit and secure closing on hooks. As soon as you put this lingerie on, you can tell it’s high-quality and made to fit and fit comfortably. Not only is it very supportive and flattering, but it’s also somehow still comfortable. The material looks latexesque while not being too hot to make you sweat while doing a photoshoot or other high-cardio activities. My nails never even threatened to go through the sturdy material that seemingly has the ideal amount of stretch. This became one of my favorites since it can also be incorporated into going-out looks or day-to-day wear.

Kixies X-Strap Black Lace Bralette
The Kixies X-Strap Black Lace Bralette is an underwire-free bralette to accompany your Kix’ies Thigh Highs! The Kixies signature triple-band design creates a cohesive look with Kixies Thigh Highs and Matching Thong Panty, making for one hot ensemble. Since there’s no underwire, there isn’t much support from this bralette, but the X strap is a cute, flattering detail.
Kixies is ideal for adding sexy details under normal day-to-day clothing or nightwear and makes an easy transition to the bedroom.
I am also a big fan of matching sets, and the triple band on the bralette, underwear, and stockings looked really sexy and united. Kixies is ideal for adding sexy details under normal day-to-day clothing or nightwear and makes an easy transition to the bedroom.

Kixies Waterfall Bralette
The Kixies Waterfall Bralette has soft lace cups and their signature triple-band design to accessorize with your matching Kixies Thigh Highs and Thong Panty. The sturdy three-row clasp in the back is just an added bonus that makes it so easy to love this bralette! Again there’s no underwire in this style, so it doesn’t offer much support, but the V-strap detail I found to be even more flattering than the X-strap. If you’re someone that enjoys strappy details, this is a great piece to wear under clothing or transition your outfit to the bedroom.

Kixies Signature Thong Panty
The Kixies Signature Thong Panty is a signature triple-band design to coordinate with the Kixies Thigh Highs and Kixies Bralettes. The soft lace is comfortable for all-day wear but sexy enough to transition to the bedroom.
Pay attention to the size chart over what size you usually wear.
I had to size up in the panties because they weren’t FUPA-friendly and kept rolling down. It was much better when I sized up, so pay attention to the size chart over what size you usually wear.

Noir Handmade Lace Minidress
The Noir Handmade Lace Minidress is a lace see-through sexy mini dress. The collar is easily fastened with hooks, and the dress has the ideal shape that highlights the wearer’s figure and curves. This high-quality lingerie is the first piece of lace lingerie that my nails didn’t go through at all.
This might be my favorite lingerie dress I’ve ever tried.
The lace isn’t the cheap lace we’re used to with lower-priced lingerie; it has just enough stretch to make it easy to get in and out of but also offers support. As I mentioned before, it’s also incredibly durable. I’ve owned this piece of lingerie for a year, and I still haven’t ripped it. The cut of it is also incredibly flattering for hourglass shapes. This might be my favorite lingerie dress I’ve ever tried.

Tease Kelsey Criss-Cross Metallic Lace Bralette, Garter Belt, & Panty Set
The Tease Kelsey Criss-Cross Metallic Lace Bralette, Garter Belt, & Panty Set gives you plenty of different pieces to work with. The set has a comfortable amount of stretch to be able to get in and out while still offering support. The Hook & Eye Closure and Adjustable Straps make it as comfortable as possible. Bikini Panty with Keyhole Cutout detail is a really cute, flattering detail. I rarely find pieces that fit my chest completely, and this not only fit but was supportive and very flattering. This set became my favorite of the entire bunch because it could be easily worn under clothing on a date or just as a sexy surprise at home.

Maid Teddy and Panty Costume Set
The Maid Teddy and Panty Costume Set include a Wetlook Teddy with Detachable Garters, Hair Accessory & Apron Skirt to transform you into the sexiest maid. The teddy has a flattering cut and offers a decent amount of support, even if the cups weren’t big enough for me. The teddy on its own is sexy, and while my chest didn’t fully fit into the cups, it fit enough that I still wore it and liked how I looked in it. The adjustable straps are nice, and adding accessories to make it look like a maid costume or just a sexy teddy was a nice option.

Vibes So Salty Long Line Bralette and Cheeky Panty Set
The Vibes So Salty Long Line Bralette and Cheeky Panty Set are a longline Bralette with Double Straps, “So Salty” Elastic, and Matching Cheeky Panty. Comfortable and breathable material makes this comfortable to wear and ideal as a sexier all-day wear option. The adjustable straps allow you to adjust it to your comfort. Simple S Hook Closures mean this sexy piece is just as easy to take off as it is to put on. While it doesn’t offer much support, it’s one of the most comfortable pieces I tried.

Magic Silk Forever Mesh Crotchless Underboob Teddy
Magic Silk is one of those brands that makes true plus-size lingerie. Not only are all of their pieces stretchy, but they maintain their shape when they stretch, and they have a range of sexy styles in plus. They don’t make their styles more modest for bigger bodies.
Not only are all of their pieces stretchy, but they maintain their shape when they stretch, and they have a range of sexy styles in plus.
The Magic Silk Forever Mesh Crotchless Underboob Teddy is a teddy with a high-neck halter design with elastic tie-back straps at the neck and swan-hook closure in the back, cutout designs for an exposed underboob, open sides and back, and an open-crotch accent for easy access to make playtime even easier. As you’d imagine, this underboob teddy doesn’t offer any support, but I don’t think you’re buying a crotchless underboob teddy for the support.

Magic Silk Forever Mesh Cupless & Crotchless Halter Teddy
Magic Silk Forever Mesh Cupless & Crotchless Halter Teddy is a teddy that has cupless cut-outs, a high neck halter design with elastic tie-back straps at the neck and swan hook closure in the back, strappy cut-outs on the sides, and a split crotch cheeky panty. Another stretchy, comfortable design that is sexy and perfect for the bedroom.

Tease Abby Bodysuit With Structured Elastic Detail
The Tease Abby Bodysuit With Structured Elastic Detail is a Bodysuit with Structured Elastic Detail, a thong-Cut Back for a cheeky style, and easy access crotch Snap Closure. Underwire Cups offer support if you fit in the cups, and adjustable Shoulder Straps mean you can make it fit comfortably as possible. I didn’t fit these cups, but they fit enough to wear, and I feel good about them. If you’re busty like me, I hesitate whenever I see molded cups and underwire. Unless they’re cup sizes, it’s hard to fit into other types of sizes. Otherwise, this was a beautiful color and cut.
Final Thoughts
- Want an extra Oomph? Boomba lifts, and tape can help you achieve it. Great for the club, photoshoots, events, or just trying to stunt on the haters, these will have you putting your best foot forward.
- Magic Silk is the way to go if you’re looking for some true classic lingerie pieces. With some of the stretchiest designs and varied pieces, this brand lets plus-size bodies be as sexy as we want to be.
- One of my new favorite brands. Noir Handmade was one of the more expensive brands, but the quality speaks for itself. These pieces can go from the club to the bedroom and are built to last and support your curves.
- If you want to add a sexy element to your day-to-day wear, then Kixies can be the cherry on top. These sexy basics can easily be incorporated into any outfit and can go from the boardroom to the bedroom.
- Are you looking for flattering, dreamy pieces? Dreamgirl is the brand for you. With more lacy flowy pieces and colors to choose from, this brand sets itself apart.
- From panties to costumes to club wear, Fantasy Lingerie has you covered. This is the brand to check out if you’re looking for affordable lingerie with a huge selection.
Now go forth and explore! Find what makes you feel your sexiest.