Playing Well With Others: Your Field Guide to Discovering, Exploring & Navigating the Kink, Leather & BDSM Communities
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(1 review) Whether you're a novice or a jaded expert, there's always something new to be discovered in the endlessly changing, complex and titillating world of kink. While there are plenty of other books out there that explain how to give a spanking or tie a half-hitch, Playing Well With Others is the first book that explains kink *culture* -- the munches, parties, leather bars, conferences, workshops, fetish nights, exploratoriums and all the other gatherings of kinksters that turn BDSM and leather from a bedroom predilection to a lifestyle and a community.
You'll learn to:
- Examine your own desires
- Ease your way into established communities
- Understand etiquette in different adventurous sex communities
- Familiarize yourself with the many types of events available to you
- Care for your relationships as you explore new territory
- Negotiate for play and aftercare
- Go back to the "world at large" without ruffling feathers
- ...and, of course, answer the all-important question: What do you wear?!
- Paperback
- 318 pages
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Inpired and inspiring introduction to playing well with others
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A slightly different approach to the introduction to Bdsm, with its focus on interpersonal interactions, community connection and finding your way to meeting and spanking/being spanked by interesting people. Funny and based on years of personal experience, the authors present an accessible as well as nuanced approach for those just starting our as well as more seasoned players considering the how's and wherefores of interpersonal kink connections. With pictures. That are awesome.
Full disclosure, I have known one of the authors for many years and worked with them at different events and have seen first hand their immense community knowledge, commitment and insightful perspective.
Full disclosure, I have known one of the authors for many years and worked with them at different events and have seen first hand their immense community knowledge, commitment and insightful perspective.
Penelope Precoscious
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