SpareParts Joque Double Thigh Strap Harness

This is one of those harnesses that is 100% worth the money. It’s comfortable, stays in place, is sturdy, and HIGHLY adjustable. I have an incredible amount of control with this harness on, and I’m not worried about the dildo slipping out. With that being said, it is somewhat difficult to get larger toys through this hole. Anything over 2” in diameter takes a little extra time and muscle, but I’ve noticed that if you put the dildo through the hole before putting the harness on, it makes that process easier. All in all though, a great harness.

Excellently constructed harness, very intuitive to use. Some notes, as I've noticed info online about this product is so all over the place: My girlfriend and I are both on the slimmer side and have to really tighten this thing in place. I didn't mind it too much but my girlfriend finds the velcro uncomfortable since it has to fold over so much. This is important since she's mostly the one using it--we also have the Tomboi and I use that on her. The O-ring on the Tomboi is lower and so it angles the dildo down more, which works better for her body (her vagina angles towards her back), while the O-ring on the Joque is higher. It's machine washable but we do find it needs to be hand-washed after each session.

I love this harness! its adjustability makes it great for such a wide variety of bodies. it's comfortable and durable, and so easy to wash and maintain. the only thing is that its sturdiness makes it feel a little cumbersome/sometimes doesn't feel quite as sexy as something more minimalist. but it gets the job done every time