What You Really Really Want: The Smart Girl's Shame-Free Guide to Sex and Safety

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In this empowering guide, Jaclyn Friedman—co-editor of Yes Means Yes—gives you the tools to decipher the modern world’s confusing, hyper-sexualized, and sometimes dangerous landscape in order to help you define your own sexual identity. Friedman decries the hypocrisy and mixed messages our culture expects specifically of "female" identity (you're a failure if you don’t act sexy, but you’re a slut if you actually pursue sex; you need to be protected from rapists lurking in bushes, but deserve “whatever you get” if you have a drink at a party and wear a skirt), and encourages you to separate fear from fact, decode the damaging messages around you, and discover a sexuality that's right for you. Educational and interactive, What You Really Really Want includes quizzes, creative exercises, and reality-based advice about sex and sexuality today. With Friedman’s informed advice to guide you, you will build new skills for safely expressing your sexuality with a partner and explore effective ways to talk about tricky issues with family and friends — and learn how to make the world a little safer for everyone else’s sexuality along the way. Author: Jaclyn Friedman
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  • 352 pages