Whether you’re seeking a titillating conversation or a mind-blowing orgasm, viewing webcams has become an easy way to make a connection with sensual people around the world. But what can you expect from the experience? How does one act appropriately in a cam room and when engaging with a cam model?
With more than eight years in the webcamming industry, I’ve seen my fair share of both incredible viewers and downright horrendous ones. It’s so important to familiarize yourself with the cam room ‘do’s and don’ts’ before plunging into this rousing world. Don’t fear, though, I have scattered some secret tips throughout this article to help ensure you have the best time possible! So, crack your knuckles, put down the sex toys, and let’s dive right in!
You may see games being played in rooms or apps being used—this varies from performer to performer and allows for endless creative possibilities and fun!
Learn the Site!
There is no shortage of webcam sites to select from and each site has their own terms of service rules. If you’re looking for a model that’s willing to smoke a bowl with you or have a glass of wine while you chat, it’s important to understand that some sites may not allow smoking or drinking while on cam. Maybe you want to engage in a particular fantasy but don’t know if the model is able – take a peek at the terms of service! This will also familiarize you with things you can or cannot talk about with the model along with easy tips and tricks to navigate the site.
Every site is different and some models will only sign up and perform with one. It’s fun to take a look around and see the different performers and layouts of the sites, join as many as you want! You may see games being played in rooms or apps being used—this varies from performer to performer and allows for endless creative possibilities and fun!
Most sites also provide navigation guides that will assist you in finding rooms that match your interests, locating models that fit your desires, and downloading or purchasing content. They all have FAQ sections so you can get a better idea of what is expected or how to do things, but when in doubt, read the performer’s room bio!
Secret tip #1: Some sites offer models a higher percentage of payout than others! Using a site such as Manyvids or Chaturbate that offer a higher payout can ensure you have a broader group of performers to investigate, as more models will want to sign up through these sites!
Read the Room!
On each site, the models are allowed to create a profile for themselves. Some allow models to put graphics, videos for sale, and links to other social media. Before you engage with a performer, take a look at their bio! A lot of models will have tip menus, information about themselves, and what they will or will not do. This gives you a chance to familiarize yourself with the performer and might answer some of the questions you have before you speak with them. This is also a fantastic way to get an idea of what you may want during the show if you aren’t sure!
We are our own bosses and run our rooms how we wish, so ensuring you follow the rules we have set will enhance your experience and pave the way to a beautiful time together!
Despite performers obeying the terms of service of the site they belong to, each model will have their own set of rules and regulations for their rooms. We are our own bosses and run our rooms how we wish, so ensuring you follow the rules we have set will enhance your experience and pave the way to a beautiful time together! Some models may choose to have moderators in the room and they will have the ability to kick out trolls and rule breakers if the model wishes for it. Oftentimes these are trusted users or regulars that the model has known for a long time and there is nothing to fear from them as long as you abide by their rules!
Much like in the bedroom, communicating wants and needs with as much detail as possible to the cam model and not pushing limits or boundaries will ensure you get the pleasure you desire and that you don’t risk being removed.
Begin the Conversation!
It can be nerve-racking to speak with a cam model at first, especially if their appearance or show has caused you to think with your genitals. Here are some tips and tricks and rules of thumb when engaging for the first time (or ever) with cam models!
First of all, greet them much like you’d greet someone on the street. Do NOT jump in with dirty talk, demands, or comments that would otherwise be considered rude. Performers are human and you do not know how long they may have been in a quiet room waiting for a good conversation! If you would like to dirty talk with a model, be sure to do so in a tip note. Otherwise, you risk being kicked from the room or ignored.
Remember, it’s never polite to insult the work a cam model is doing or assume they are at risk or need to be saved from the adult industry.
Don’t worry, if you aren’t feeling the performer or it’s not a good fit, there are so many options for another first chance. Don’t be afraid to jump around until you find a room and vibe that compliments the mood you’re in! Remember, it’s never polite to insult the work a cam model is doing or assume they are at risk or need to be saved from the adult industry. Camming has become a more popular option for those embracing their sexuality and it is not your responsibility to lecture if you disapprove.
Secret tip #2: After you have read their bio, you may have had something stand out! Use what you’ve learned about them to start a conversation. “Hello there! I hope you’re having a fantastic day, I see you enjoy Yoga? I do as well!”
Realistic Expectations!
If you make a friendly connection with a performer, it’s easy to be swept away romantically and sexually. It’s paramount that you have realistic expectations and understand that cam rooms are not a dating connection. Pushing the boundaries of the fantasy that the performer has created for you and asking for their real name, location, or meetups is not appropriate.
If a cam performer is comfortable talking about such things or providing personal information, they will do so organically. But never take it personally if they do not, and do not continue to pry as this will create discomfort and can lead to you being removed from the room.
Secret tip #3: Cam models are messaged quite a bit on different social media accounts and often find themselves on the clock at all hours of the day. Be patient when waiting for responses and be respectful of the attention and time you are given. Do not message to chat outside of a cam show if you have not given monetary support and NEVER send unsolicited dick pics.
Games and Fun!
As I mentioned before, some cam rooms may have apps or games in place to chip away at their show goals. Sometimes you are able to tip for prizes such as flashes, videos, sexual acts, silly or funny actions, or pictures. Other times it might be as simple as contributing to a game of Twister or Jenga and enjoying the laughter and fun that comes along with it. There are also some models that enjoy bringing in aspects of their everyday life or their hobbies and passions into their cam show. There is such a beautiful array of talented individuals just a click away!
So whatever you desire, there is a room where you can find an escape from the stresses of the outside world and have a good laugh or orgasm. It’s a common misconception that cam rooms are sexual all of the time and you may find that you have just as much fun playing an online guessing game or tipping to watch someone create art or music.
Secret tip #4: Some models may have tip-enabled vibrators in their room. This means their toy will vibrate when you tip! Larger tips will make the toy vibrate for longer and provide a more intense vibration pattern for the model.
NO tip is too small. Every single cent is going to a model’s goals and will help you stand out from the rest.
Can’t Tip? Support in Other Ways!
If you find yourself unable to tip a cam model while you are in their room, but enjoy the performer and want to support, there are countless ways to ensure they know you appreciate them. Watching and engaging with a cam model is an entertainment luxury and if you’re unable to tip, make sure you are not asking for free attention or sexual acts from the model.
Instead, take a look at their social media links and follow them. Be sure to interact with their posts to boost their interaction on different platforms and spread the word about their incredible shows. Perhaps they have a mailing list or have an account on Pornhub or YouTube that you can give them free views on. Whatever the case, supporting models is easy and can assist with a growing connection and experience with your favorite performers.
Secret tip #5: NO tip is too small. Every single cent is going to a model’s goals and will help you stand out from the rest. Don’t be intimidated by others tipping large amounts, everything is immensely appreciated and shows you like what you see!
Start the adventure…
More and more people are discovering the sexual freedom and connections that can be established by viewing and interacting with cam models. It’s important to remember there is NOTHING wrong with supporting and engaging with online performers and cam rooms! Whether it’s for a more personal twist on your normal masturbation routine, discovering or venturing into kinks and fetishes you can’t otherwise explore, or simply having a meaningful conversation; technology has made it easy to plug into our world.
