Spareparts Dildo Stabilizer O-Ring

This is a great item to have for anyone playing with a variety of toy sizes or harnesses, or particularly slimmer toys or toys with smaller/less sturdy bases. Anytime a toy feels unstable in a harness, this stabilizer ring will probably help! Adding this to a toy essentially gives it a wider base, which then makes it more stable in a harness. To use it: wet the inside of the stabilizer with lube or water, slide it over the toy (might take some effort), then load the toy into the harness the way you usually would.

I find that this works particularly well with underwear style harnesses that aren’t as adjustable, as well as harnesses with less built in stabilization (such as thigh harnesses which have fewer points of adjustment, or low profile harnesses with little to no cushion/base behind the O-ring). This product could also be used in front of a toy as sort of thin bumper to cover up an uncomfortable O-ring (sometimes metal rings can hurt the receiving partner), but this would likely decrease its stabilizing effect.

It is made of a porous neoprene, meaning that this product probably shouldn’t be shared between people who don’t normally share fluids. It’s easy to wipe down and keep clean but not really possible to sterilize.

Overall, a great inexpensive addition to a harness and dildo set, and a nice item to keep around just in case.

Easy, breezy, functional! A bit of water helps it slide on better.