Best Dildos for G-Spot and P-Spot Play

Anatomically speaking, the g-spot and p-spot are pretty similar and require the same type of stimulation, warm up, and shape of toy. The one major difference is since the prostate is in the backdoor you must make sure the products have a flared base so they don't get lost inside the body. Many dildos already have flared bases so they can be used in a harness, but it’s still a good idea to confirm that your dildo has a substantial flare at the base if you intend to use it for butt play.

Besides ensuring that your dildo has a flared base for anal or strap-on use, size is a major consideration when choosing a dildo. A helpful tip is thinking about how many fingers you prefer if you do manual penetration. If it’s one finger we’d recommend the .75” to 1.2” range, for two fingers we’d recommend looking in the 1.3” to 1.5” and for 3 fingers anything from 1.6” to 1.8”. These are all estimates, so use your best judgment when choosing.

Most folks associate an extreme curve with g-spot and p-spot dildos, and while that is a popular choice there are other options. Representational toys with a pronounced head will pull down on the g-spot or p-spot when they’re pulled out which stimulates the spongy tissue. Keep in mind that textures feel more intense in the back door so smooth toys tend to be a more popular choice for prostate exploration. However, if you’re a fan of textured toys and enjoy the feeling of the textured waves or bumps, consider dildos with pronounced textures like Icicles No. 24 Glass Tentacle Dildo, Sportsheets 6 Inch Pleasure Bump Textured Dildo and Crystal Delights Rainbow Bubble Glass Dildo.

Lubrication is key for g-spot and prostate play because our butts don’t self-lubricate and because entering the vagina without lubrication can cause unwanted friction. The g-spot and prostate become more engorged and noticeable when you’re aroused, so start with lots of foreplay and add your favorite lubricant to make penetration easier and for comfort and longer duration of play. Water-based lubricants are great for front or back door play and can be used on all toys. Silicone lubes are slick and long-lasting, but can’t be used with silicone toys. Hybrid lubes generally feel silky like silicone and will last a little longer than water-based lubes because of the added silicone. Oil lubricants are great for moisturizing the skin, just keep in mind that they will break down latex so they aren’t compatible with most condoms.